You don’t need another coping strategy

You need to understand what’s actually going on.

I’m Sara Vida, a BACP registered integrative therapist and trauma-informed coach for women who are exhausted from holding it all together.

"Working with Sara has helped me so much! I'm sleeping better and feel much less anxious. I've learnt so much about myself and why I've been feeling the way I do."

"Sara is great what she does - she helped me make sense of things I'd been carrying around for years without realising. I'm really glad I found her."

"Sara really listens to me and somehow understands what I'm trying to say, even when I can't put it into words. I feel like she just gets me."

Sara is supportive and I felt like she genuinely cares which made it easier to open up. I will really miss our sessions "

"Sara makes me feel less alone with what's going on in my life. I see things in a different way now. I love we can do our sessions online and very happy to have found her even though I'm in a different country"

"I love my sessions with Sara. Its not just talking, we do exercises that help me see what's really going on for me. Its really helped my overthinking."

"These sesssions have helped me understand why I feel the way I do, which has made a big difference. Things make more sense now and don't feel as overwhelming."

"Sara's sessions are different to anything I've tried before. I always leave feeling 'lighter'. Sara really cares and is so supportive. She's the best!"

"Since starting with Sara I've started to see my relationships differently and recognise what isn't healthy for me. This has made a huge difference to my life."

"This program changed everything for me."

"I nearly didn't reach out but I'm so glad I did. Working with Sara has helped me more than I can really explain"

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